My Labels

A carrd listing off (most of) the labels that I use and why I use them, as well as links to definitions/flags for each of them.A google slides that has my whole collection of flags
My main carrd

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Gender Labels
Orientation Labels

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QUEER
I use this because I am queer, my queerness is intertwined with my identity and being. Everything I do and feel is queer.
I also use queer because I identify with the political aspect of the queer label.

SUBLABELS
AutiQueer & NeuroQueer: I use these because both my autism and my neurodivergence affect my queerness, they are all deeply intertwined.SoulQueer: I use this because every part of me, as deep as the deepest parts of my soul, are queer. I cannot be separated from my queerness as it is an intrinsic part of me.MaxQueer: I use this because I am all about being as queer as possible.

A-SPEC
I use this because I am aspec in multiple ways. I am on the agender, aromantic, aplatonic, analterous, aqueerplatonic, asensual and asexual spectrums. (I'm also on the autism spectrum :P)

SUBLABEL
NeuroAspec: I use this because all of my aspec identities are heavily influenced by my neurodivergence.

ALTERHUMAN
I use this because I don't fully identify as human. I know I am technically human (physically), but the real me is not.

SUBLABELS
Humanish: I use this because I'm human but not exactly human. I feel separated and disconnected from my human identity & body and feel comforted by being seen as nonhuman.Demihuman: I use this for essentially the same reasons I use humanish; because I am human but only partially (and not quite).Otherkin: I use this because along with not fully identifying as human, I also identify as some non-human things. I personally believe in the multiverse theory and reincarnation/past-lives and these impact my otherkinity. I am both a spiritual and psychological otherkin. My kintypes being: batpire / vampire, void&space (as concepts, as personifications, and as creatures from them), and creature / monster / eldritch being.Otherhearted: I use this because there are things that I identify with (not as)(involuntarily), that impacts my identity and sense of self. My kithtypes are: bats, cats, corvids, and sharks.Otherlink: I use this because there are non-human things that I voluntarily choose to identify as and with. My linktypes are: shapeshifter, dragon

TRAITBLUR
I use this because I cannot differentiate my identity from my interests, I also often cannot separate the two.

TERMCOLLECTOR
I use this because I collect genders, orientations, names, and pronouns. I generally just collect a lot of things, quite a few of thrm being labels and terms.

SUBLABELS
Voidcollector: I use this because the main reason I collect so many labels is so that I can fill in the void, left by heavy dissociation and masking, where my identity should be.Neurocollector: I use this because, due to my neurodivergence, I am constantly questioning my identity which leads me to collect a bunch of labels that I may identify more or less with over time.Corvidcollector: I use this because I often collect labels like a corvid collects trinkets. I go "ooh that seems cool, I like it! It's mine now :3"

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TRANSQUEER
I use this because I am trans and genderqueer, my gender identity does not correspond with the gender I was assigned at birth and I view it in a queer way. My queerness is intertwined with my gender and how I percieve, interact, and express it.

GENDERFUCK
I use this because I like to fuck with gender roles. I use it as a way to combat cisheteronormativity and gendernorms. A big reason I identify with it is because it's "an identity based on a resistance against gender norms, homophobia & transphobia, oppression and societal status."
I also like to use this to mean that my gender is fucked up.
^{Another flag that I like}

SUBLABELS
Nonbinary: I use this as well because my gender is not on the binary. I am neither a binary man or a binary woman, I am something else.
I mostly use it for convenience because a lot of people don't know about or understand genderqueer.Queergender: I use this because my gender is queer. I don't just see my gender in a queer way, queer is my gender. In the same way that someone is a man or woman, I am a queer.Chaosgender: I use this because my gender is very chaotic and complex. It can do a lot of random things and be confusing and hard to understand at times.

MULTIAFLUX
I use this because my gender is not simply just one solid thing. I experience multiple genders and I often fluctuate through them. No matter what genders I am fluctuating through though, I am always simultaneously genderless.

SUBLABEL
Florenian: I use this because I experience unaligned, neutral, feminine and masculine genders, but never full manhood or full womanhood.Transmasc: I use this because my gender is masculine in a boy way and it doesn't abide by the strict social binary and conventional notions of sex and gender.Librafem: I use this because I still have partial attachment to femininity and girlhood despite not being a girl.Shrodigender: I use this because I can both feel and not feel my gender at the same time.Gendern't: I use this because I relate to the concept of having no gender while simultaneously also having a gender.

XEMIBOY
I use this because I'm xenogender and partially a boy.

SUBLABEL
Demiboy: I use this because I am a boy but not fully. I am a boy in a nonbinary and xenine way. I also identify as a transboy/tboy due to being demiboy. While I identify with boy I do not identify as a man.Xipboy: This is what I am, I am a xip who is also a boy. I am not a girl and I don't identify with enby.
I am also not a man neither am I a xenan.

KINGENDER
I use this because my kintypes impact my gender. When I feel more connected and like a certain kintype, I identify more as that gender.

SUBLABELS
Vampiregender: I use this because I feel like my gender is connected to vampires. Vampires are very much gender envy.Spacoid: I use this because my gender is related to the void and all of space in all aspects and ways. My gender feels like it came from and is made up of space and the void.Creaturething: I use this because my gender is related to being a creature, a thing, and a creaturething.

SILLYAEANGENDER
I use this because I don't always take my gender seriously, I view it partially in a silly and light-hearted way and partially in a serious way. Gender being a social construct is a big part of my gender identity.

BITCHTHING
I use this because my gender feels related to being a bitch and a thing.I also use rockbitch because I feel like my gender is connected to being a rock and a bitch.
^{(I adore rocks and my gender is a bitch to me 😠 /silly)}

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NEBULOUS ATTRACTION
I use this because I can't distinguish between the non-physical attractions.
To me, all of the emotional and tertiary attractions seem very similar and are like slightly different versions of the same thing, with no clear distinguishability between them.

OMNIFLUX
I use this because I am omni, I experience attraction to every gender, with that attraction fluxtuating in intensity. Sometimes I prefer women, sometimes I prefer men, sometimes I prefer nonbinary people, sometimes all my attractions are even, sometimes I have no attraction at all, etc.
veldian, and lesbian. Sometimes I fluctuate or am fluid between the three, sometimes I'm all at once.

CORVIAN
I use this to further describe my attractions. I use this because all of my attractions are gay regardless of gender, partially because I'm multigender and partially because I'm genderqueer. My attraction to women is always lesbian, my attraction to men is always veldian, my attraction to enben is always cenelian, my attraction to xenen is always xenian, and my attraction to agen is always nixian.

ANSPEC
I use this because I fall under the anattractional spectrum in many ways but am not fully anattractional.
I also use this along with omniaspec
because I feel it describes my anspec experience.
^{(the flag I use)}

SUBLABELS
AnaeSpike: I use this because my aesthetic attraction fluctuates in intensity, with it often being like sudden spikes, intense but short-lived.

AroAce: I use this because I completely lack romantic and sexual attraction, I have never experienced them and don't believe I ever will.
I am also sex-averse.BellusRomantic: I use this because I want to be able to do traditionally romantic things in a relationship that isn't strictly romantic. I want to do romantic things in a non romantic way.

Aplatonic: I use this because I fall under the spectrum of little-to-no platonic attraction. I don't really desire to form friendships or deep bonds with people (unless I already know them), and I have difficulties forming and maintaining relationships.GreyPlatonic: I use this because I am aplatonic but don't feel "fully" aplatonic.
I identify with this because I "feel alienated from platonic love or friendships" and "feel unsure about how to identify platonic attraction or how to draw the line between platonic and non-platonic, and consequently feeling unsure about having experienced it or not."

AQP-spec: I use this because I fall under the aqueerplatonic spectrum and have little queerplatonic attraction.
^{The flags that I like}DemiQP: I use this because I have only ever developed queerplatonic attraction to someone after forming a bond and connection with them.
^{the aqp flags I prefer}CupioQP: I use this because despite not experiencing much queerplatonic attraction, I still desperately want a queerplatonic relationship.

Analt-spec: I use this because I experience little alterous attraction. I don't really desire a deep emotional bond/closeness with any particular person.GreyAlterous: I use this because I am analterous but not "fully" analterous.
I rarely feel alterous attraction and the desire to form a deep emotional bond with anyone.
^{the flags I use}

Asensual: I use this because I don't experience sensual attraction. The thought of touching someone or someone touching me can sometimes be repulsive to me (generally because of sensory issues), though I mostly have mixed feelings about touch and other activities involving the senses.CupioSensual: I use this because even though I don't experience sensual attraction, I wish I had someone that I could engage in enjoyable sensual activities with (e.g. cuddling, hand holding, just listening to each others voices, etc).
^flags